Sex Tips

Great sex doesn't usually just happen. It takes time and experience, an open mind, a sense of self love and fun. Some good sex tips can be useful too. Sometimes it is good to try something new, to experiment a little bit or a lot.

Welcome to our sex tips page. We hope that you find something here that tickles your fancy.
Hot Erotica
Many women enjoy reading erotica. It can provide useful material for amping the volume of your sexual experiences.... For starters I recommend "Orgasmic Erotic for Women". It's available from Amazon ISBN 978-1-57344-402-6
Awesome Orgasms
Most guys think it's hot for a woman to touch herself expecially while he is watching. Make the most of this ladies and really let go and enjoy yourself - while he enjoys watching you come.
Lou Paget in 365 Days of Sensational Sex
You need to accept that great, loving sex isn't only about intercourse. What I have heard consistently in ten years is that intercourse is but one segment of great lovemaking - especially for those couples who are not physically able to have intercourse due to pain, illness, or injury. Now, I am in no way taking away from intercourse as a terrific part of sex, but I am pointing out that if you rely only on intercourse as the way of being sexual with your lover, then you seriously limit your mutual ability for sexual pleasure.
Lou Paget in "365 Days of Sensational Sex"

Permission is a huge compnent of healthy sexuality, both the giving and the receiving of it. And often, the biggest gift givers of permission are our very selves. Given that sexuality is the place where we all begin, it's amazing that we humans culturally give ourselves so little permission to know and to not know about our sexuality. This is our most powerful form of communitcating; it is what creates life and love and every one of us.
Dr Alex Comfort, The Joy of Sex
Women who have really learned to enjoy sex are usually fascinated by their partner's apparatus . . . and learn to play with it fully and skilfully. Good hand and mouth work practically guarantee a good partner.
Sexual Energy
"Our sexual energy is not some optional luxury. It is nothing less than a major source of the energy we have in our life as a whole. It is a wellspring of incredible power and joy for us if we cultivate it." If you are interested in reading more, Mantak Chia and Dr Carlton Abram's book could be of interest. Check out The Multi-Orgasmic Woman(2005).
Couple's Golden Rule
Do unto your partner as you would have him or her do unto you.
Be Sexy Every Day
The only way to become a sex goddess is to act like one. Start now. Imagine you [are] the most gorgeous, sexy creature you can imagine.... Act 'as if' every chance you get and you will get results. You'll feel good - more confident, more sassy, less prone to eating chocolate in bed - and everyone (including men) will notice. You have to walk the walk. Literally. Hip-swinging and slow, with your head high and your heels higher.
From The Good Orgasm Guide by Kate Taylor
MENSA 1988
There seems to be a 'positive link' between brainpower and sexual performance, according to MENSA, the international organisation associated with geniuses. More intelligence appears to correlate with better in bed. Perhaps people should use IQ tests when they are searching for a partner?
Hot Tip for Women
Many men think it's hot for a woman to touch herself while he watches. Make the most of it and really enjoy yourself. Let him enjoy watching you come .... and come again .....
British Medic Dr John Smith
Apparenty a good kiss and a cuddle is more effective than analgesics for curing headaches. Reportedly it works by relaxing muscles in the neck and shoulders that may trigger troublesome headaches. Sounds fine by me!
From Gerard Dimiglio, French star of 'Emmanuelle 4'
I make love as much as possible because that is the best exercise of all (...though I still have to take a five-minute jog around the woods of Paris every morning).
Madonna
I thought of losing my virginity as a career move.
Mick Jagger
Sex is like a candy box. When it's open, why resist?
Woody Allen
The most fun I've had without laughing... Sex between two people is wonderful, providing you can get between the right two people.
Dr Irene Kassorla
Perhaps no human experience comes closer to a union with universal consciousness than intercourse with a loving other. It is the peak, the culmination of one of life's most exciting, satisfying, and often awe-inspiring gifts. And part of the gift of this experience is orgasm - one of the most natural transitory endowments we can claim - where we can shift from animal to man to God.
Dr Alex Comfort, The Joy of Sex
Women who have really learned to enjoy sex are usually fascinated by their partner's apparatus... and learn to play with it fully and skillfully. Good hand and mouth work practically guarantee a good partner.
Ursula Andress, Revue magazine
I stay slim and young-looking because I love so much. And sex is important - without it you are dead. There is nothing worse than being sexually frustrated.
John Sherwood, England
Commonwealth Games Gold Medallist Hurdles

If people are sensible, making love does improve your sporting performance. People get a better nights sleep after sex and this must be a help in the competitive strain next day.
Lesley Anne Down, Sunday Magazine
I think sex is the most interesting thing in the whole world. There's nothing like it and nothing is quite so good. It's the thing that occupies my mind more than anything else, and I would like it to occupy my time as much as possible.
Britt Ekland, True Britt
I am not a courtesan or a promiscuous woman, but I need to love and to be loved. My work, my whole way of being, cannot function without emotional nourishment.
Gay Talese, U.S. writer
Sexuality is only going to improve by the emphasis on pleasure. Women used to have the idea that to like sex is to be an evil woman or a nymphomaniac Now they are getting the message that to be sexual is not to be unvirtuous.
Ernest Hemingway
Sexual intercourse is like bicycle racing - the more you do it, the better you get at it.
From the Sex Coach
A hot sex life begins with your thoughts and attitudes towards sex. You, and only you, are responsible for your thoughts and attitudes.

So, take the time to really think about how you define sex. Is it important to you? Is it something you want to enjoy? Do you love your body and the pleasure it can bring into your life?